What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be caring!
Filled with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not think about the other day or tomorrow. Do not browse or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Receive likewise very knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are in fact out of the question. Everything happens in the moment, in complete awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or falling asleep is likewise not meant (still, when that's what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the method or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is crucial, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a really surprising course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, but because the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually turned up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always should be ensured. Caring attunement constantly precedes.
Set clear limits in advance
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise essential (read the article on securing borders. Think in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Ensure there is a proper consumption, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries ahead of time: about mental boundaries, as well as make sure for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is likewise completely okay (however hard to deal with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage need to be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages only on the head. Also, in addition, really each cell is sensuous, however you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (mutual) limits. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important role once again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ development/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life focused on growing in love and awareness. In a split second you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra knows different strategies to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (overjoyed) state of being.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
Tantra helps you to end up being more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so much more. Actually, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what occurs typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is completely allowed! A tantra massage is usually great, sometimes scrumptious. We, therefore, welcome you to completely take pleasure in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have certain practices and methods in typical. Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (aimed at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Well since you are really super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer good conditions (physically, however also psychologically).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is demand complimentary, don't push or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Develop in combination (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with exactly what they themselves discover pleasant, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own issues and above all ... do not try to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Again, do not try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to this company what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when someone falls asleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, of course. Understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is normal and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and supply combination minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery result. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover exactly what it is like to like yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a wonderful physical, mental well-being (of both).